Crazy, Stupid, Love
Sep 12 2011
What a great title and a really good movie. A friend and I saw Crazy, Stupid, Love this past weekend and it was really good. Steve Carrell (the Office) pulls off his character well. Even though it’s been out for a while, it was sold out at Alamo Drafthouse Village but had tons of seats open at Regal Gateway so unfortunately we couldn’t snack & drink while we watched the movie.
Marriage is hard. Life is complicated. Raising kids is rewarding but exhausting. Teenage kids are teenage kids. This movie makes the stupidity of love & marriage “funny” and acknowledges the imperfection of humanity. It reminded me of American Beauty but it was less dark. I’m amazed when people can stay married for over 25 years. I mean, what are the odds of picking the winning horse (or lets just say the horse you will back in sickness, in health, in bad behavior, in richness, poorness, in decency, in bad judgment, in affection, in rudeness, etc.) or them picking you 50 years in a row? I guess like there are few people who can win or finish the Iron Man Triathlon, there seem to be fewer marriages making it past their children’s graduation from high school.
So, what is love? It’s crazy, it’s stupid and it usually makes no sense. In the case of this movie, it means fighting for your soul mate (even if it’s teenager stalker like). It meant people admitting to and owning their mistakes. It comes down to communication and listening. When I was a teenager, I believed in soul mates. As I got older, not so much. According to How Many People Do You Have To Meet To Find Your Soul-Mate, you have to meet 23 for a 50/50 chance of finding them. If you do happen to find them at some point in your life, chances are they will be unavailable.
A guy I once knew told me that “men fall in love; women settle.” He told me not to think about it too long, because I would realize it was true. I guess the biological clock or other familial or economic necessity is stronger than the desire for a soul mate. Plus, if you found him or her and you had babies they’d probably be messed up, kind of like with inbreeding. Yuck! That certainly would explain a lot of literature.Author: Aruni | Filed under: movie reviews | Tags: american beauty, crazy stupid love, iron man triatholon, movie review, soul mate | 2 Comments »